R&T's excellent Sri Lankan adventure

The trials and tribulations of a foreign adventure. Ron took retirement from the City of Portland Oregon and took his wife Tricia to Sri Lanka. He's going to provide techincal assistance to cities there. This blog is used to share the story of leaving home and living in a new country. You can contact Ron & Tricia privately at their e-mail address: ronb@pacifier.com

Tuesday, January 31, 2006

Photos at www.rtsla.photofreeway.com

Monday Jan 30th
Yesterday, Mr Kularathna brought us fish for our pond that is in the atrium. He also brought us a water plant. He never ceases to amaze me. Mr. Kularathna is the trishaw driver I use anytime I have errands to run or shopping to do. He rarely allows me to tip him, he has the lowest prices of any driver I have used and he manages to drive with all three wheels on the ground, which is more than I can say for most of them! I call him when I need a ride and have only used someone else when he isn’t available which is quite infrequent. The most he has ever charged me was 900 rupees and that was for about five-six hours of running around plus his wait time when I am in a store. The fare is usually closer to 300-500 rupees (one rupee is one penny). At any rate, let’s just say we are smitten with one another. He has driven for twenty-five years and has known of every street or place I have asked him to take me to. At some point he went to the Middle East and earned enough money to buy land and build his home. Most Sri Lankans own their homes and a smaller percentage rent. I don’t know how many but I think it is not uncommon for Sri Lankans to go abroad to earn money and send it back home. They will do this for years. I will post a photo of Mr. K and his trishaw as soon as Ron has time to give me a lesson. The younger drivers like to ‘gaudy up’ their trishaws with fancy paint colors, decals, artificial flowers, pictures of Buddha or Hindu gods, fringe and aerials. We saw one trishaw with six aerials on it. Go figure! Mr. K has the plain vanilla variety. Ah, the wisdom of age…

So now I have my first goldfish and guppies at 60. They are quite pretty in the mini pond. One died this morning. Probably the trip from Mr. K’s to here was just too much. Ron spent about an hour or two on Sunday trying to drill through the wall under the steps (everything here is concrete) so he could install an air pump for the fish. Unfortunately, his drill bit wasn’t long enough and our nearby hardware store didn’t have anything that would work. Today Mr. Kularathna told me they weren’t available in SL but he would get a drill bit and have an extension welded onto it so Ron could get all the way through the wall.

We have this week and next at home then the classes start up again and the schedule is getting intense. Ron’s team has to roll out new classes every six weeks to meet the demands of the grant. Classes are scheduled for three weeks in February. I’m not sure which ones I will be accompanying Ron on but I know he will be flying to one of them due to his schedule demands in Colombo. In addition to having family visit in February (Dick and Pat Parker arrive Feb 18. They are David’s wife’s parents), Ron’s bosses from Thailand and Washington DC will be here Feb 20-22. We are very excited to have our first houseguests and even think we are ready!

To keep us humble, John Craig, who lives in Bosnia and with whom Ron works, sent us this cartoon today. Thanks John. Now I’m sensitive about my writing.

http://www.comics.com/webmail/ViewStrip?key=43135492-85a332c27f-FF

Wednesday Feb 1
Oops I forgot to post this. How can you be retired and loose track of time like this?
The American Center here has free movies every Tuesday night. We went to one in November but haven’t been back either because the movie didn’t interest us or more often, because we were out of town. Last night they showed Chicago. We saw it in Portland but needed a night out and some entertainment. It was great the second time. We came home and discovered we had no water. We have been without hot water for several days as the original solar system wasn’t properly installed and was causing water damage to the third floor walls. Apparently when they were working on it yesterday they tripped the electrical system that pumps water into the house. Anyway, Mrs. Bakshi called them at they cam around 9:00 and got us water. We have several more days of cold-water showers. Yikes! Makes for a quick one.

I have a problem remembering what I have said in emails and what I have said in the blog so forgive me if I am repeating myself. Monday or Tuesday I saw my first parakeet with the binoculars. What a thrill to see these beautiful birds. They aren’t like those parakeets we see in the pet stores at home. This was a rose ringed parakeet, much larger than what we are used to. Go to Google and take a look. They are spectacularly colored. Green body, rose ring around the neck, orange beak and teal tail. WOW! And I saw him from the roof top garden. He was back today and holding still for a longer time. They fly quite fast so it was quite treat to see him just hanging out in a tree.

I have been asked to do a project for the Asia Foundation. I am not comfortable with parts of the project as I think it is beyond my skill level. So I asked them if they want me to do part of it or none of it. Waiting for an answer. I also said I would only do it as a volunteer to avoid any conflict of interest with Ron’s work. So we’ll see. I think I mentioned that I will be doing some career development work with young women here.

That’s it for today from Sri Lanka, where the men are gorgeous, the weather is sultry and the Bergmans are having an adventure.

Friday, January 27, 2006

Photos at www.rtsla.photofreeway.com
Ron added more photos last night.

This morning I was watering the first floor garden. It is dense with mosquitoes so I wear a long sleeve shirt and long pants in order to minimize bites. Colombo has a problem with garbage collection and disposal and consequently there is a problem with dengue fever that can be deadly. Mosquitoes carry it. I hear a variety of birds every day here. This morning I heard a new sound and looked up to the third floor and there were three parrots perched on the exterior wrought iron stairs, singing away. I have seen parrots at a distance but never this close. Unfortunately, my binoculars were inside the house. When they flew off there were about 7-8 of them. They tend to hang out in groups I have noticed. This place is so special in many ways. I love the plants and birds that are here.

There has been a delightful breeze all day. If you are out in the sun it is hot, always it seems. Perhaps because we are closer to the sun at the equator. The weather reports here have a UV rating on a daily basis.

Have I told you about dogs in SL? They are all 14-18 inches tall. 98 % of the dogs we see are a mutt with pointed ears that either stand up or flop down. They are all shorthaired, long-tailed, dogs and in a narrow range of size. I have seen one boxer and two German shepherds since arriving. Dogs are much more common than cats. Many are dirty, appear to be street dogs and some have mange. Our friend Diane Hunter would be in constant pain seeing the street dogs.

Ron has been at a two-day staff meeting at work. Tonight Alix is hosting a dinner party for all the staff in their program (15) so I am making a very American loose-leaf lettuce salad with cashews, blue cheese and dried cranberries. I made balsamic vinegar dressing. By the way, olive oil cost $11 a bottle here. I about fell over when I saw what is cost. But when you consider what food cost in general, it all balances out. For example, a fresh pineapple here is 40-60 cents and mangoes are a dime! HA! So who am I to complain?

Although Ron’s employer pays for our utilities, our water bill was sixty cents one month and seventy cents the next. Our electricity bill when we ran the air conditioner every night to sleep was $33. I am interested to see what it will be now that we just use the ceiling fan. We gave up the AC and are happy about adjusting to the climate. Since we no longer use AC, we no longer need the duvet we were using so I went back to the shop where I bought the duvet cover and bottom sheet to get a flat top sheet. They don’t make them! I ended up going to a shop that sells bedding by the kilo. I found a flat sheet almost the same color and it was 288 rupees. That’s $2.88. I was told it was 100% cotton. The other sheets I have bought cost closer to $30. Imagine my delight at finding what I needed after going to three stores. Ah Sri Lanka, it is a great place, mostly.

I think I have mentioned that we have ants on all three floors. They ate tiny ants but let me tell you they are very special. If you drop any food on the floor, in a very short time there is a gang of ants gathered around for a picnic but the next time you walk by, the ants have left and the food is gone. It’s better than having a dog to keep the place clean and you don’t have to take them for a walk!

I have been asked by our language tutor to do some career development work with a group of young women with whom she works. Apparently, all of them have had some sort of tragedy in their lives. None of them live at home but in a group home/orphanage. They lost their family in the tsunami, had abusive parents or some other problem that required that they no longer live at home. It has been years since I have done much with career development but my friend Dee at PSU sent me some materials I will need. It’s been too long and I’m too old to remember all the details of the exercises we use to do at PSU. I am very grateful to Dee for her willingness to share and for email, making this material so easily available. It will be an interesting experience I am sure.

There are more workmen here today and will be here for a while. They fixed the toilet that wasn’t flushing properly, the sprayer that leaked (SL has a water sprayer by every toilet). I think they spray water on the seat after each use. But why would you want to sit on a wet seat I ask? They had to dig up Veena’s driveway to fix the toilet and have decided their original design wasn’t so good since it took a half a day to get to the problem under her driveway. Now they are re-designing the access. When that is done they will work on the roof, as there are multiple places where the walls are water-damaged. My understanding is this will take about ten days.

Guess that’s all for today folks. So long from Paradise.

Sunday, January 22, 2006

Ron had a lot of problems posting photos to the blog so we went to a website that allows us to post photos and for you to view them. The website is www.rtsla.photofreeway.com. We just started this weekend so you will need to check it from time to time for updates. He will have a few categories like ‘countryside’ with photos of places we travel to, ‘home’ with photos of our house, etc. Then within each category of multiple photos that you can click on to get a larger view. Hope this makes sense. As you can tell, I’m no technical writer.

Yesterday was a Red Letter Day for us. One of our goals this year was to pay off our mortgage. We’ve been working on it for a couple of years by making larger payments. Well yesterday we wrote a big ole check and paid that baby off! Yippeeee! We are now completely debt free and it feels good. Now we can save a significant amount so when Ron really retires we won’t feel so pinched.

Because this house, and my guess is most houses here, are not built to standards, we have had workmen here for four days manufacturing shower doors for two showers on the spot. Three men were working on it with another man who would check their work from time to time. Imagine the cost if they were working in the US. As they were finishing up, they cracked one of the glass panels so have to come back, supposed today.

Yesterday we had a visit from someone we met shortly before we left Portland. Shariff works with an NGO here on the peace agreement between the Tamils and the government. The LTTE has been escalating their activities since the election with killings of security forces. The president has said he would not be provoked into going back to war. That makes me feel more confident. Although I don’t feel personally threatened, if war broke out we would need to leave on short notice and that causes me great concern, with a house full of furniture and furnishings that we plan to ship to Thailand when we leave here. More importantly it would be such a tragedy for Sri Lankans to have to endure more civil war. No more wants the war to start again.

Our next house project is to have cushions made for the sofa that Veena is letting us use. The cushions that are on it are ‘dead’ and the covers are ‘tired’ looking. We bought a DVD set of six seasons of West Wing that we never saw when we were in the States but are desperate for entertainment since movies aren’t available. There are DVD movies but since most are bootleg you often get a DVD that doesn’t work. So when we sit on this couch to watch West Wing our rear ends hurt after about 40 minutes because the cushions don’t have any cushion left in them. Saturday we found some material we both like and today the cushion guy is supposed to be here this morning. It’s now 11:00 and he is a no-show. Normally I wouldn’t care but I have errands to run and can’t leave until he shows up.

We love having DSL at home. It has made life a lot easier. We called our kids this weekend using Skype, an internet phone service that costs about two cents a minute, Most of the time it works and for two cents a minutes, we aren’t going to complain!
I can be more active with email correspondence and more regular with blogs.
Well that’s it for today from SL, where the men are gorgeous, the weather is sultry and the Bergmans are having an adventure!

Saturday, January 21, 2006

dining set


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entry to roof garden


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owner made mosaic in atrium


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roof garden


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Thursday, January 19, 2006

We left Sunday at 10:30 for Kalmunai on the east coast of SL and arrived 9.5 hrs later. Oy! We took a very southern route in order to avoid any possible problems due to recent violence in the north. The roads were the worst we have traveled on since arriving in Oct. Often they were one lane so that any time a bus or truck (very frequent) came towards us we had to move off the road because in SL the big guys always have the right of way. Added to this was the condition of the road. These smaller roads were never built for heavy vehicles like buses or trucks so the road has been worn down to the nub and makes for a VERY bumpy ride making the trip uncomfortable and exhausting. I pitied our drivers who had the added stress of driving under these conditions. Because the trip is so long, they drive as fast as possible when they can to make time but that means you go from very fast to a screeching halt. Oy again. We saw some beautiful sights: rice paddies, four elephants, small veggie and fruit stands, mud huts with thatched roofs, reservoirs, rubber trees and mountains in the distance.

We came east to teach two classes: one in Kalmunai and one in Batticola. Batticola cancelled right before we left Colombo because of the violence in their area. Participants did not want to travel under the circumstances. One thing that apparently happens after an incident is some towns literally shut down. The road into and out of town is blocked and anyone trying to get past the roadblock is stoned. Yikes! It is a form of protest over the violence.

There are limited accommodations in these small towns. We are staying at the better of the two choices. Our mattress is a foam mattress that is soft so when two of you are in bed, you roll to the center. Oh my aching back. The bottom sheet looks like a small bedspread, too small to tuck into the mattress. The top ‘sheet’ is a large tea towel that doesn’t cover one person adequately much less two big Bergmans. I asked for another bottom sheet. The bathroom has a tub and bidet, toilet and sink. None are particularly clean so showering is the only option. No shower curtain so water goes everywhere. The tub has a normal drain but it drains out of the hole in the side of the tub to the floor, along the wall for about 15 inches then into a hole in the wall that drains outside to the yard. Dinner is eaten at the guesthouse. We had chicken fried rice, bite size pieces of chicken which is common here, bite size pieces of fish and ‘gravy’, a sauce with a tomato base, onions and what looked like scrambled egg. I don’t ask because I just as soon not know. The tablecloth was heavily stained with food and oil and my glass had grunge on it. I asked for a clean glass. Something chewed on Ron during the night and the second night he got a couple of mosquito bites.

On our first morning we drove for 40 minutes to the town where the training is held. There is no accommodation there so that’s why we are staying 40 minutes away. I saw one other car during the 40 minute trip. Every other vehicle was a motorcycle, bicycle, truck, van (small bus here) or bus. Later in the day I saw one or two more cars but that was it. This was repeated on the second morning. The roads through the villages are abysmal: there are either more potholes than road or the asphalt is non-existent. The villages here alternate between Tamil villages and Muslim villages. Most Tamil are Hindu.

Because of the huge rice paddies here, this area is considered the granary of SL. All are privately owned, no agribusiness here yet. As we drove along the paddies, we saw men in shorts, short sleeve shirts and most probably bare footed due to the wetness of the paddy, spraying insecticide from a sprayer mounted on their backs that we could smell through the closed windows of our Jeep. Oy vey. Personal safety is almost non-existent here.

The training is being held in a brand new, still under construction, building. No working bathrooms so we go across the way to the city offices. There is a western toilet and a squat toilet. These two are for men and women. First day I used the western toilet only to discover that there was no longer a handle with which to flush. There was a cup on the tank so I went outside the cubicle to get a cup of water. Guess what? A cup ain’t enough to flush. The funny part is I was wearing a split skirt, basically a pair of pants with really wide legs. So there I was in a cubicle that was three sides concrete floor to ceiling and a wooden door with no light so I left the door partly open praying no one else would come in. Then I was trying to keep the hem of my skirt off the floor that was wet and dirty while lowering the skirt to pee. This is probably more information than you wanted but it was an act of contortion and would have been a comical sight to watch. Just another aspect of the adventure here. I hope I don’t come across as judgmental about the differences here. I try to report things as I experience them to give you an accurate picture of our experience.

The training was scheduled to start at 9:00. At 9:00 there were three people of the 30 expected. By 9:30 almost half were here and by 10:00 23 were here with the last ones arriving at 10:50 Welcome to Sri Lanka! With the team, drivers and me working we got set up in time for 9:00. We frequently have to change the set up when we arrive. When we arrived Monday, the floors were very wet. Everyone managed to track is sand due to the construction going on around and in the building. What a mess.

On Monday morning we had a north Indian breakfast: fried puff bread (yum), potatoes with veggies and chilies, sambol (finely grated coconut with red chili). Sri Lankans love deep fried food. They eat it at breakfast, morning tea, lunch, afternoon tea and dinner. We are trying not to eat much but sometimes it is unavoidable. At dinner one of our drivers, Mohan, was wearing a sarong which is leisure wear and night dress for many men. For a large number of men, it is what they wear day and night. He gave us a sarong-tying lesson and showed us four ways to tie a sarong. A sarong is a large tube of cloth. When I think about it, it would be the least expensive clothing possible since only one seam would be required.

On both days I walked through town looking for a store that sold toiletries and for an Internet café. I am guessing that visitors aren’t found here too often judging by the response I got. I felt like Marilyn Monroe the way men stared and smiled and extended greetings to me. I say men because there are very few women on the street. On Saturday before we left Colombo Ron and I finally got around to cleaning up ‘Geetha ‘s room’. Most houses of any size in SL have a room for servants. Since we never intended to have live-in servants we used the room to store cardboard boxes. I noticed a week or so ago that Geetha had found a piece of thin sheet foam that she had placed on top of the boxes and put her comb and talc on. She has her own toilet, and shower next to her room. She washes off before going home. I have provided toilet paper and towels for her. So we cleaned out the room, bought her a chair and table and moved the things the landlord had stored under the table or to one side of the room. So yesterday I was buying toiletries for her: hand cream, shampoo and talc. I am so thankful for her services I try to let her know we are grateful for her help.. When we travel I bring vegetables or fruit home and have started bringing some home for her also.

Yesterday I was sitting in the training fanning myself because I was sweating. I looked over at my Muslim sisters in headscarves and full length, long sleeve dresses and wondered how they were faring. Today they brought a fan into the room and fortunately placed it right near the ladies of Islam!


Walking in town, I realized there are no sidewalks but there are rectangular concrete slabs that cover the ditch. It makes for precarious walking, particularly for someone who is clumsy so I just walked in the road. There is a center divider also through town. So it is more common to see motorists going the wrong way to a break in the divider rather than go the long way round. It is reasons like this that we have encouraged our family and friends to hire a driver and car when they visit next month. Driving here is one of the scariest experiences ever. Buses are the worst. Because they are big, they assume the right of way. They drive very aggressively, and very fast because time is literally money to them. Private bus drivers must have a minimum of fares each day. If they don’t meet the minimum, they don’t get paid. So the faster they drive, the greater the potential for exceeding their minimum. They blow you off the road with their horns and aggressive driving. On the way to the training sight we passed many school children. Most of the Muslim children were in white but some were in beautiful lavender school uniforms. Ron asked Suba what the significance was. He said those in lavender had put too much bluing agent in their wash and turned their uniforms lavender.

Monday two people were shot in the area. In the 14 years of civil war, there have only been three incidents involving non Sri Lankans. Only one of those three incidents resulted in injury to the person and that person was doing something illegal and should not have been where they were at the time. The fight is very strictly between Tamils and the government. So class was cut short and Tuesday class also will let out early so everyone can get home early and safely. Some people travel over two hours on buses to get to the training.

We went back to our guesthouse and had tea under the trees where there was a good breeze. Then Suba, Ron and I took a walk to the beach. Kalmunai was the first and worst hit beach by the tsunami in SL. When we got to the beach, we saw lots of ruble and foundations of homes. The entire ‘settlement’ was gone. We passed a man who was looking out at the sea. When we came back from our walk, he was still looking out to sea. I can only imagine what he must have experienced but I was close to tears just seeing him there. There is a lagoon right next to the beach so we took photos of kids playing nearby and watched a man cast his fishing net in the lagoon. As we walked back to our guesthouse, we stopped and watched some young men playing back yard cricket and Suba explained the rules as we watched.

I think our room with two meals a day costs about $27 a day. They don’t clean the room o r change the towels. I do wonder if they clean the room when we leave. Today for breakfast we had roti (Indian flat bread), white toast, dhal, sambol. Yum! I was doing some copying for Ron today and when I came back they were washing the tea glasses from morning tea. The bad news is they were using a five-gallon bucket with cold water and no soap. Ye gads. I went to an Internet café today and it took about 20 minutes to get online. I was doing this blog entry when the power went off because they had turned on the AC for me. Sri Lankans think we have to have AC. So I rebooted, realized all my work was lost then they turned on the AC again. I gave up and left. Consequently I will post this when we return to Colombo.

We left on Wednesday at 9:00 in the morning. Our fellow travelers, all of whom are Sri Lankans, stopped to buy rice at a rice stand. It was fascinating to watch them discussing with the seller the various rice varieties, holding the rice in their hands and studying it, tasting the raw rice and finally buying large qualities. Later we stopped for fresh fruit. I got limes for a penny each and mangoes for 10 cents each. Before lunch we stopped and bought fresh veggies. The produce you buy out in the country is always the best. Around 3:30 we stopped for lunch and arrived home at 7:45. Needless to say we were road weary and delighted to be back in our own nest and comfortable bed.

1-20-06
Yippee! We just got DSL. No more Internet café unless we are traveling. Yippee!

Thursday, January 12, 2006

Before I give you the history lesson I promised yesterday, I wanted to tell you about our mail. We rented a private post office box in Vancouver before we left and have had them forward our mail here. When we get a packet of mail, we get a six page form from the main p.o. in Colombo and I go there and it takes about 30 minutes, filling out forms, waiting in line, seeing five-six men each of whom does something to my form or my mail. Well we haven't gotten any mail for three weeks. I've been badgering our Vancouver agency about the mail. In an act of desperation today Ron had a Sri Lankan coworker call the post office and complain. Later in the day they delivered three packets of our mail! Well had I only known I wouldn't have bothered to pay 100 rupees and take 30 minutes each time. Just complain and poof there is your mail delivered! Now I know.

We got word today that DSL is to be installed next week while we are on the east coast. Keep your finger crossed. We are SO ready for it.

So for some history. Anuradhapura is SL's most sacred city. Along with Mihintale, it represents the first real home of Buddhism in SL. From its origins as a settlement in the sixth century BC, Anuradhapura was made SL's first capital in 377BC by the king Pandukhabhaya who started the irrigation works on which it depended and named it after the constellation Anuradha. The first era of religious building followed the conversation of King Tissa (ruled 250-10 BC). Under his rule, the sapling from the bo tree in India under which Buddha attained enlightenment was planted and it is one of the holiest Buddhist sites in the world. Today it is visited by thousands of Buddhists from around the world. Anuradhapura remained the capital until the ninth century AD when it reached its peak of power. At that time it probably stretched 25 km. Successive waves of invasion from South India finally took its toll. After the 13th century it almost completely disappeared. It was rediscovered by an archaeologist in 1872 and work has continued ever since. In 1988 it was designated a World Heritage site.

Mihintale is revered as the place where Mahinda converted the King Tissa to Buddhism in 243 BC. thereby enabling Buddhism to spread to the whole island. The story goes that the king was on a hunting expedition and came across Mahinda and was astonished to find a gentle person who spoke to him of Buddha's teachings. Mahinda had come from India to preach Buddhism and was able to convert the king and 40,000 followers. As well as being important historically it is an important religious site. So I climbed 1840 granite steps two days ago to see this wonderful serene place. From the top of the hill you get a beautiful view of the surronding area. Another beutiful sight was this goregous SL man who works on the archeolgical site and filled us in on some of the history there. I've been asked to provide photos of these men I keep referring to but I was so busy drooling over this guy I completely forgot to take his photos. Bummer.

I think I mentioned that we are going to the east coast, Tamil area, and may not have access to the internet for the week. If that is the case, I won't be posting until we return, hopefully to DSL in our home! Yippeeee!

Wednesday, January 11, 2006

We are back from Anuradhapura. Today is Wednesday and we leave again on Sunday for the east coast where resources are scarce. We have no idea if we will have internet access but we will be there a full week so may not be able to post while there. It is an eight hour road trip. Having just completed a five hour trip, I can tell you I don't look forward to it. I love the scenery but if you get off the primary roads onto a secondary road (they call them Class B) it is hell. They are a little wider than a single lane and the surface is very rough so you do a lot of bouncing. It wears you out, frankly. I think we will be on Class B roads for part of the trip next week. Oy!

Now for the good parts. We were in Anuradhapura, where there are ancient ruins. I forgot to bring my book to the internet cafe so will give specifics on my next visit. The sacred city is about 2,000 years old. So while Ron was working I was a tourist. Apparently about a million people lived in the region way back when. The irrigation sytems was something to behold. They have urinals carved into stone that went into a filtration systems that consisted of three very large ceramic jars that were stacked on top of each other. Each jar contained a filter-pebbles, sand, and charcoal I think. This prevented the ground water from being polluted apparently. Pretty darn impressive! The oldest living documented tree in the world is here. It was a sapling from the bo tree where Buddha attained enlightenment. It is a very holy site with Buddhists as you can imagine.

I also visited Mintale. There were 1,800 steps to reach the dagoba where a collar bone of the Buddha is housed. Fortunately, we went early in the day and there was a cloud cover so I was able to make the trip with no sweat so to speak. One of my favorite sites there was a carved standing lion whose open mouth was the spout for a shower for the older monks (60+) who could not climb to the top for bathing. Apparently 1200 monks lived here. This site is where Buddhism was introduced to Ceylon. Again I'll give the specifics when I have them in front of me. How I long for internet access at home.

There was great birding at our hotel. One day I was across the road from our hotel, where there is a reservoir built about 2000 yrs ago. I was looking at water fowl. A young boy followed me on his bike. He didn't say anything but stood close to me and watched me. I turned to him and asked if he wanted to use the binoculars. He shook his head no. After another ten minutes I asked again and he looked through the binoculars. Then he said 'money'. Ha! I said no but I have a school pen. He seemed pleased with that but stayed until I left.

My tour book described our hotel as 'shabby'. They didn't lie. It was built in 1957 and we don't think they have done anything to the place since then! The food was good but it was run down. I went to the front desk two days in a row and they couldn'tmake change for 1000 rupee note: that's $10.! Pretty sad.

We chose to move our last night to a lovely place that cost about $20 more. It was five year old, owned by an Italian firm. It was built in the colonial style about 20 minutes out of town in a lovely setting. The food was incredible. Internet here was $9. hour which is two days wages for many here. Needless to say we didn't use it.

On this trip we saw mud and thatch huts, lots of rice paddies, water buffalo, monkeys. On the way over, we stopped for tea at a rural resthouse (like a small hotel) and it started raining hard while there. I watched an old man cross the paddy with a bamboo staff in one hand and a large umbrella in the other. A short while later I looked out and saw these large lumps that turned out to be water buffalo. I thought 'were those there before I and just didn't see them?' Turns out he was the herdsman. What a cool sight. On the way home, we stopped at some rural vegetable and fruit stands. You can get better produce outside of Colombo. We bought mangos for ten cents each. I bought two small pumpkins, two ears of corn and a kio of orka for $1.15. I also saw wood for sale. I asked our friend Suba and he said outside Colombo almost everyone cooks with wood in their yard.

Another frequent sight here that I keep forgetting to mention is laundry: hotels and individuals line dry wash. When they run out of clothes line, they simply put the articles on the grass to dry. There are ants everywhere here and in my experience, if your damp clothes touch the ground or bushes, you will get lots of ants with your laundry.

Well, the rain is slacking so I will make a dash for home. Hopefully, I can fill you in on the ancient cities before I leave on Sunday.

Saturday, January 07, 2006

We are back from Chilaw. Got home around 7:30 last night and we leave tomorrow (Sunday) around 2:00 for Anuradhapura which is about 5 hours away. We will return on Wednesday. I think I wrote that we stayed at a very nice resort about 30 minutes out of town. Often when you trave lto rural areas or smaller towns your choices for lodging are quite limited unless you stay in lodging that costs $2-$10 a night. Those places never have air conditioning, rarely have hot water and the toilets would be out back.

Leaving the resort on Friday morning I saw numerous women gathering at communal spigots to get water to carry home. Oy, water is so heavy so imagine how many trips you would take in a day. I'm sure they use a fraction of the water we do and most probably use a spring or some public bathing place. That would be cold water only. It was rainy on Wednesday and I saw a charming sight: Two men on a bicycle, one carrying an umbrella to shield the two of them. Sometimes you see the same thing only on a motorcycle. Rain gear is a plastic bag if you have one big enough. Again I saw men holding hands or arms draped around one another. It's pretty special to see.

Last week in my neighborhood, I passed a fish seller. He was walking down the street with a long pole balanced on his shoulder.Remember those painting fromChina of such a sight? From each end was suspended a flat basket. One contained a large fish and the other prawns. He also had a small scale and a knife. So you would tell him how much you wanted, he would cut off a piece of the fish and weigh it to charge you the appropriate amount. Don't ask about refrigeration here as it is not required. I think I told you I have never seen eggs refrigerated anywhere in Asia.

Another common sight is bare dirt landscaping. Homes will have no grass but might have numerous potted pants in the yard. I have never seen a stroller here. Small children and infants are carried. Often in the city young women will be begging for money while carrying a small child who may be nursing as she walks along.

When we had our cable tv installed, the installer showed up with no drill. He asked to use ours and Ron said no since he had never used it and we didn't have a masonry bit anyway. So one of the men went back to his shop to get the drill. This is a typical kind of experience here. At the training that was done in Chilaw, copies had not been made of handouts, the printer and projector had not been packed. The person in charge blamed the people to whom he had assigned these tasks. I think I described the sorry shape the training room was in. The facilty is a Catholic conference center. When I asked to use the toilet, I was led into the room used by staff. In order to flush the toilet, you remove the tank lid, reach into the water with your hand and pull the submerged level. Yuk! This was the nice bathroom. I hear the two toilets for conference participants was so bad, one of our staff complained. This facility can accommodate 1000 attendees and has two toilets! What is wrong with that picture?

Suba is one of Ron's team members and he is aTamil (as opposed to a Sinhalese). His sister and her family live in Chilaw so we were invited to their home for lunch. What a feast and what a priviledge! We were given forks but the Tamils ate with their hands. We were served in tin plates which is common here. The plates still had the paper price label on the face of the plate. The tin cups the same. We were served five dishes with rice: soup, dahl, potato curry, brindjahl (eggplant), a salsa like dish, bitter gourd, little fried cracker like things. There was tapioca with raisins and coconut for dessert. Suba's sister served us but did not join us at the table. They are moving in a month into a new home they are having built. We were presented with commercial calendars from the husband's workplace as we left.It was a very special expereince and we are very grateful for it.

One more common sight here is when the road caves in someone will put an upright stick into the hole as a warning. Sometimes they will put an empty plasitc bottle or bucket on the stick to help drivers see it, sometimes not.

Before we went out of town we took Veena and her mother out for dinner as a thank you for all they have done for us. We asked Veena to tell us the story of our house and how it came to be. Her parents bought the land in 1965 and built their home there in 1973. Her mother had planted a large garden on the property. Three years ago Veena decided to build the second home. The house still has a few unfinished areas: one exterior wall needs paining. It adjoins the neighbor's house and we are pretty sure this is the reason for the mildew/mold problem in our closet. We moved our clothes to a closet in another room until the wall gets painted. There are two showers that need enclosing and she has hired someone to do that. A large window in our bedroom needs to be reset as it leaks when there is heavy rain. Some of the interior needs repainting due to water damage. We are happy as clams there and feel very fortunate to have Veena for a landlady.

One last observation for the day. Most light poles and telephone poles are concrete here.
Hope to write fromAnuradhapura.

Thursday, January 05, 2006

Jeez, where does the time go? We are in Chilaw about two hours north of Colombo where Ron and his team are doing a training. We are staying at a resort about 30 minutes out of town. The resort, Palm Bay Club, is surrounded on three sides by a lagoon and faces the ocean on the fourth side. Quite a setting. The resort has tennis, golf, snooker/pool, a gym, massage, the largest swimming pool in Sri Lanka. It is incredibly big. While Ron is working I took a long walk on the beach, went birding on the grounds, took a morning nap, ate too much lunch, took photos of the grounds, took an afternoon nap, read and wrote post cards. What a life! If not careful, I could turn into a slug...the dining here is open air. You eat in an area with a roof supported by columns and no walls. It's my favorite way to dine.

This morning on my walk I talked to a fisherman. Sri Lankans are always curious as to where we are from and usually will ask you. In the cities this is sometimes used as a come on for some undesirable end but in the rural areas, there's no hitch to the question. Later I spoke with three fishermen who were sitting on the beach. One asked me for a cigarette using sign langauage. I told him I didn't smoke so he asked me for 'bumba' which is what kids always ask for. It's chewing gum. I told him I didn't have any so he pointed to my shoulder bag and asked for 'school pen' again this is what kids always ask for. I said I have school pens. I always carry a supply since I have learned kids love them and they are a better gift than sugar/gum! He jumped up and grabbed two and his two friends jumped up and grabbed the other three. They rushed at me the same way kids do and then giggled with glee.

When I went out birding, I got attacked by the most aggressive ants I have ever encountered. They were on my feet, my arms, one was well up my skirt on the way to my hinney. Yikes, they would bite and start chewing and not let go. I got about eight-ten bites, got nervous but nothing happened. Sure got my adrenilin going. Since they had terrible coffee this norning which I couldn't drink, I guess this was my substitute for waking me up. Next time I'll just drink the coffee!

The ride up here was lovely. Once we got out of Colombo we passed through several towns that appeared prosperous in that the shops looked new or freshly painted and well maintained. Most places in SL look like they need to good scrubbing and a fresh coat of paint so it was refreshing to see places that were so well maintained. By contrast we stopped by the room Ron's organization had rented for the training. It was on the third floor-walk up. There rarely is any accommodation here for disabled people. The chairs had cane bottoms and were in need of repair, the tables which were to be used as desks were chipped, scarred and dirty, the screen for projection was a couple of pieces of white cloth sewn together. OY.

Last weekend Ron and I found a shortcut to the internet cafe though a quaint close neighborhood. On one side are houses (huts might be a better term) and the other side is a short wall. The distance between the two is about four feet. There are always people in front of their houses. Some were looking for lice in each other's hair, one was brushing his teeth, some are visiting. We are quite out of place there but have been met is warm smiles and hellos. So I asked Veena if is was okay to cut through there and she said no problem during the day but don't do it at night.

New Year's Eve we went to bed early but got up at midnight when the fireworks went off. We went up to the roof top garden and were joined by Veena, her sister in law and two young nieces. Although there were a lot of fireworks most were firecrackers. Still it was lovely to share the time together. New Year's is a big deal here. The next Tuesday (first day at work for Ron after the holiday) everyone I saw at the Asia Foundation greeted me, held my hand and wished me a happy and properous New Year. I sometimes feel like royalty here given how I am treated.

My driver, Mr Kularathna came by on the first and brought us a huge papaya, four coconuts (used for coconut water which is very popular to drink) and an orchid he had grown. We were totally overwhelmed. Keep in mind the wages here folks. When I use him for four hours it costs around $7.00. We had given him $10 for a holiday gift which is considered a big gift here. He has brought us fruit two other times, asking nothing in return. Amazing.

Ocassionally, we see bullock carts still being used here to haul stuff. Talk about a step back in time. Women mostly wear saris, or long ankle length skirts. Some wear pants, some young women wear tight jeans. It is rare to see a woman's legs. All the women wear their hair long, down to their hinnies. They pull it back at the nape of the neck or wear in in a bun or braid. Veena is one of the few women I know who cuts her hair short.

I forgot to mention Ron saw a Christmas tree here with a star of David on top. Well that should cover two traditions in one! Another common sight is seeing a hair salon that says 'saloon'. Maybe they serve beer while cutting hair. Also you will see men on bicycles carring their wives who sit on the bar sidesaddle.

Sorry this is so disjointed. I've been taking notes but have not been able to post for awhile so I'm just throwing a lot at you.

Got to go. That's it from SL where the men are goregous , the weather sultry and the Bergman's are having an adventure.